Identify one or a few great women you're really attracted to and forget the rest. By focusing your efforts I think you'll find you're more successful with the ones you like. When you hit on every woman who catches your attention there's something shallow and distracted about your approach. Women will wonder if you really mean business. And word will spread about you that you're incapable of genuine feeling, loyalty and commitment.

I understand, of course, that each summer day is capable of throwing dozens of beautiful new women in your face. Your primal male instinct will have you wanting to mate with each of them. Sorry. I never said that being an Ironman was going to be easy. It requires choices, self-discipline, a code. You will find, however, that once you subscribe to this code and put all your energy into living it, you will grow ever more sure of yourself. You will have a clearer and cleaner sense of how to behave, what to do, in any given situation. And the sense of purpose and mastery you feel will more than make up for any disappointment you experience in not feeling free to run around indiscriminately.


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